I suppose I should have put the disclaimer before the acronym oh well. This Blog is about (among other things) gay sex. If reading about gay sex bothers you then don't read this blog. How HARD is that?
Being HARD is very important in black culture. Especially if your a dude. As a matter of fact we (black folks) tend to put a shitload of stock into our men being "hard meaning don't cry u sissy, beat than mans ass if he disrespect you, fuck all the bitches you can young man...oh but make sure to stay prayed up and see the preacher on Sunday" and this is just advice from Grandma! Young black men are encouraged to be "Playas" (see LIAR) "Baller" (see Hustler) and Pimps (see er Pimp) all sub genere's of being HARD! The absolute worse thing u can be as a young black man is "soft" (see show emotions, show intellect, show thoughtfulness or...shudder Cry) this is why we as a black community have turned out an entire generation of HARD uneducated violent thoughtless brothas. Because that's what we as a black community want our men to be.
Anything but soft (see gay) because being a soft (IE compassionate, educated, thoughtful and shudder homosexual) will get you nowhere in life.
But what is HARD in the hood really? How HARD is it to sag your pants like everyone else, how hard is it to yell "Money and Ho's" like everyone else. How HARD is it to be a thug ghetto clone that looks and acts like every other Young thug in the hood?
What's HARD to me is the loud ass fem sissy that every hood has (see Antione Dodson) who swishhes and stunts and lisps his/her way past all the dope boys and hood rats and disaproving looks from old folks because he simply can't not be who he is. That takes balls. That is hard. These loud ass queeny hood rat dudes get on my nerves, Yes they do. They are so loud and ghetto and GAY on the bus "Girl? Miss Thing" sharing all their business with everyone in the vicinity. It's annoying and tacky to me at times but I must say I admire their..ya know BALLS. It takes alot more heart to act like that in an enviorment where such actions are deemed at the best disgusting and at the worst damnable.
A straight friend of mine recently asked me about sex with dudes. "How can you feel masculine sleeping with a man?" I never really looked at it that way. I mean I'm a top dude. If your halfway decent looking and have a shred of humor or personality it's not that hard to get some female to open her legs up in the ATL. Not much of a challenge. But me, I have a BROTHA with dreads who has girls and kids with his legs up in the air laying underneath me. Feminine? Far from it I feel like super-nigga! What's HARD?
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